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william smith Email

CIty/Country Berlin NH usa


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My name is william smith,  I am a college student in NH and I am doing a paper/ presentation on Bullying.  I came across your daughters story and I nearly cried. I just want to say I am serverly sorry for what youve gone through.  I wish there was i way i could help you.  Hearing your story has inspired me to be a better person.  Once again I am sorry for your loss..

William G. Smith
Criminal Justice Student

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Jackie St Hilaire Email


CIty/Country Manchester, NH

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Hello Jeralyn,

I have had the privilege of speaking to you these past few weeks and to hear your story about your daughter Jessica.

Thank you for your inspiration.


Arlene Gundersen Email

CIty/Country Vernon, N.J. 07462

Thinking of sweet Jessica on her Heaven date tomorrow.  May her spirit stay so close to you that you can "feel" her breath on your cheek.  Jeri, you & Keith will be in my prayers tonight and a candle will be lit tomorrow in Jess's memory.  Blessings to all.

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Linda Email


CIty/Country AZ.-U.S.A.


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Keith & Jerri, sending you, hugs,love, hope that tomorrow is a gentle day for the both of you, and that Jessii will send you, heavenly angel kisses  upon your face.......
        Love Linda ,Heather  Lynne's Mom


CIty/Country Chocorua,New Hampshire USA


My heart goes out to all affected by this beautiful loss of this soul ....This page is a beautiful tribute to her ..touched my soul even though I did not know her personally ..Looks like the world has lost another angel and heaven has gained one Much Love to all of you may you know she is not far .<3



Kelly Thiel 

Happy 25th Birthday our sweet angel, Jessii. You have been in my thoughts all day. I pray your Mom and Dad are doing alright, because we both love them so very much. Jessii please keep them safe and healthy as only you can do. I look forward to you blessing so many in this world. Your heart is pure and golden. Let the people feel your love and Gods. I cherish every memory we ever had and the ones yet to come. Love to you and your family forever, Kelly.

Scott Miller Email

CIty/Country Edmonton, Alberta, Canada


I just wanted to not only express my condolences to the Haffer family, but also to relate to you what happened to me as a victim of bullying. There's not enough space on this page to relate all of the events in school that were very emotionally painful to me, but I can at least tell you how I was affected. I became an alcoholic and also came very close to committing suicide. I got sober in Alcoholics Anonymous but even after getting sober in AA I still had problems with depression. I really want to thank you very much for letting me share this with you. Please feel free to email me.

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It was so nice meeting you on the plane into Sioux Falls last night.  Thank you for sharing Jessica with me.  She was a beautiful girl with an amazing spirit.  Her life has touched so many people, including me, and I'm sure it will continue to do so forever. 

Dad Email

Some days are worse than others for me. Today is one of those days. I remember how excited you were to exchange Valentine cards with your friends. How Mom and you built the giant Heart House for your cards; how much you loved everyone and never had bad things to say about anyone, no matter how cruel they were to you.
I am sending you my love in a winged card to reach you in heaven.

Keith Email

The first Thanksgiving without you was 4 days after you transcended and 1 day after the funeral. This morning I cried like it was 2003 again, no daughter, broken lives and shattered dreams. The pain, the loss, your smiles, your eyes. We wish you were here.

How I wish, how I wish you were here. 
We're just two lost souls 
Swimming in a fish bowl, 
Year after year, 
Running over the same old ground. 
What have we found? 



CIty/Country Belfast ny

What a beautiful tribute to your angelic girl!

Stephanie Carpenter Email

CIty/Country Sioux Falls,SD

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.       
-Mary Elizabeth Frye

10 years ago, I lost one of the most amazing friends Ive ever had. I would give anything to see you one last time,talk to you again, make a silly joke with you, and hear your laugh. I miss you everyday Jess.  Thinking of you today,Keith and Jeri. Love to you Both.
Stephanie Carpenter.

Laurie Email

CIty/Country Sioux Falls

Jeri  and Keith, I want to say I am thinking about you both today and tomarrow our time. Hope you are both ok. Thinking of you, Laurie


Just remembering

Lynnette King-[GP] 

Thinking of you today Jeri!

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Keith Email

Happy 24th Birthday Jessii. Your Mom and I will celebrate your birthday this year, as we have done since 2004, by releasing balloons and crying. We never thought your 14th birthday was the last we would celebrate together on earth. You have been free for the last 10 years and we know you have accomplished miracles all around the world.
Instead of your 24th birthday being one where you would be making a impact on this earth person by person, you have and continue to make an impact groups, countries and continent-by continent.

Love to you from where we are to where you are.   DAD

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